love

"The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present."

Secrets of Love

Secrets of Love

The First Secret - The Power of Thought

Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think about. Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships. Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts about others and ourselves. If we want to love someone, we need to consider their needs and desires. Thinking about your ideal partner will help you recognize her when you meet her.

The Second Secret - The Power of Respect

You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them. The first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-respect asks yourself, "What do I respect about myself?" To gain respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself "What do I respect about them?"

The Third Secret - The Power of Giving

If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it! The more love you give, the more you will receive. To love is to give yourself freely and unconditionally. Practice random acts of kindness. Before committing to a relationship ask not what the other person will be able to give to you, but rather what will you be able to give them. The secret formula of a happy, lifelong, loving relationship is to always focus on what you can give instead of what you can take.

The Fourth Secret - The Power of Friendship

To find a true love, you must first find a true friend. Love does not consist of gazing into each other's eyes, but rather looking outward together in the same direction. To love someone completely you must love them for who they are, not what they look like. Friendship is the soil through which love's seeds grow. If you want to bring love into a relationship, you must first bring friendship.

The Fifth Secret - The Power of Touch

Touch is one of the most powerful expressions of love, breaking down barriers and bonding relationships. Touch changes our physical and emotional states and makes us more receptive to love.

The Sixth Secret - The Power of Letting Go

If you love something, let it free. If it comes back to you it's yours, if it doesn't, it never was. Even in a loving relationship, people need their own space. If we want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgive and let go of past hurts and grievances. Love means letting go of our fears, prejudices, egos and conditions. "Today I let go of all my fears, the past has no power over me - today is the beginning of a new life."

The Seventh Secret - The Power of Communication

When we learn to communicate openly and honestly, life changes. To love someone is to communicate with them. Let the people you love know that you love them and appreciate them. Never be afraid to say those three magic words: "I Love you." Never let an opportunity pass to praise someone. Always leave someone you love with a loving word - it could be the last time you see them. If you were about to die but could make telephone calls to the people you loved, who would you call, what would you say and.. Why are you waiting?

The Eighth Secret - The Power Of Commitment

If you want to have love in abundance, you must be committed to it, and that commitment will be reflected in your thoughts and actions. Commitment is the true test of love. If you want to have loving relationships, you must be committed to loving relationships. When you are committed to someone or something, quitting is never an option. Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationship from a strong one.

The Ninth Secret - The Power Of Passion

Passion ignites love and keeps it alive. Lasting passion does not come through physical attraction alone; it comes from deep commitment, enthusiasm, interest and excitement. Passion can be recreated by recreating past experiences when you felt passionate. Spontaneity and surprises produce passion. The essence of love and happiness are the same; all we need to do is to live each day with passion.

The Tenth Secret - The Power Of Trust

Trust is essential in all loving relationships. Without it one person becomes suspicious, anxious and fearful and the other person feels wrapped and emotionally suffocated. You cannot love someone completely unless you trust them completely. Act as if your relationship with the person you love will never end. One of the ways you can tell whether a person is right for you is to ask yourself, "Do I trust them completely and unreservedly? " If the answer is "no", think carefully before making a commitment

fall in love and come close shout and distance urself

Why do we shout in anger? Lovely reason explained by saint.



A saint asked his disciples, 'Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at
each other when they are upset?'
Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, 'Because we lose our calm, we shout for that.'
'But, why to shout when the other person is just next to you?' asked the saint. 'Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why do you shout at a person when you're angry?'
Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the saint.
Finally he explained, 'When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other through that great distance.'
Then the saint asked, 'What happens when two people fall in love? They don't shout at each other but talk softly, why? Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is very small...'
The saint continued, 'When they love each other even more, what happens?
They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that's all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.'

MORAL: When you argue, do not let your hearts get distant, do not say words that distance each other more, else there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return.

LIFE

Life ends when u stop dreaming,
Hope ends when u stop believing,
Love ends when u stop caring,
Relationship ends when u stop sharing.

Innocent love

I have had this before a couple of times - but still brings tears to my eyes - also I think the impact can very depending on what is happening in your life when you receive this I'D LIKE THIS BACK IF IT APPLIES A little girl went To her bedroom and pulled a glass jelly jar from its hiding place in the closet. She poured the change out on the floor and counted it carefully. Three Times, even The total had to be exactly perfect. No chance here for mistakes. Carefully placing the coins back in the jar and twisting on the cap, she Slipped out the back door and made her way 6 blocks to Rexall's Drug Store with The big red Indian Chief sign above the door. She waited patiently for The pharmacist to give her some attention, but he was too busy at this moment. Tess twisted her feet to make a scuffing noise. Nothing. She cleared her throat With the most disgusting sound she could muster. No good Finally she took a Quarter from her jar and banged it on the glass counter. That did it! 'And what do you want?' the pharmacist asked in an annoyed tone of Voice. I'm talking to my brother from Chicago whom I haven't seen in ages,' he Said without waiting for a reply to his question. 'Well, I want to talk To you about my brother,' Tess answered back in the same annoyed tone. 'He's Really, really sick...and I want to buy a miracle.' 'I beg your pardon?' Said the pharmacist. 'His name is Andrew and he has something bad Growing inside his head and my Daddy says only a miracle can save him now So how Much does a miracle cost?' 'We don't sell miracles here, little girl. I'm sorry but I can't help you,' the pharmacist said, softening a little. 'Listen, I have the money to pay for it. If it isn't enough, I will get The rest. Just tell me ho w much it costs.' The pharmacist's brother was A well dressed man He stooped down and asked the little girl, 'What kind of a Miracle does your brother need?' ' I don't know,' Tess replied with her Eyes welling up. I just know he's really sick and Mommy says he needs an Operation. But my Daddy can't pay for it, so I want to use my money.' 'How much do you have?' asked the man from Chicago 'One dollar And eleven cents,' Tess answered barely audibly. 'And it's all the money I have, but I can get some more if I need to.' 'Well, what a Coincidence,' smiled the man. 'A dollar and eleven cents---the exact price of a Miracle for little brothers. ' He took her money in one hand and with The other hand he grasped her mitten and said 'Take me to where you live. I want To see your brother and meet your parents. Let's see if I have the miracle you Need.' That well dressed man was Dr. Carlton Armstrong, a surgeon, Specializing in neuro-surgery. The operation was completed free of charge and it Wasn't long until Andrew was home again and doing well. Mom and Dad were Happily talking about the chain of events that had led them to this place. 'That surgery,' her Mom whispered. 'was a real miracle. I wonder how Much it would have cost?' Tess smiled. She knew exactly how much a Miracle cost..one dollar and eleven cents....plus the faith of a little child. In our lives, we never know how many miracles we will need. A Miracle is not the suspension of natural law, but the operation of a higher law. I know you'll keep the ball moving! Here it goes. Throw it back to Someone who means something to you! A ball is a circle, no beginning, no End. It keeps us together like our Circle of Friends. But the treasure inside For you to see is the treasure of friendship you've granted to me. Today I pass the friendship ball to you. Pass it on to someone who is a friend To you. MY OATH TO YOU... When you are sad.....I will dry your Tears. When you are scared.....I will comfort your fears. When you are worried.....I will give you hope. When you are confused......I will help you cope. And when you are lost...And can't see the light, I shall be your beacon....Shining ever so bright. This is my oath.....I pledge till the end. Why you may ask?....Because you're my friend. Signed: GOD INSTANTLY WHEN YOU RECEIVE THIS LETTER, YOU ARE REQUESTED TO SEND IT TO AT LEAST 10 PEOPLE, INCLUDING THE PERSON WHO SENT IT TO YOU.

10 Tips For Ensuring Utmost Satisfaction

10 Tips For Ensuring Utmost Satisfaction

1. Be gentle with your partner. Harshness has no place in bed.
2. Remember to cut your nails if they are very long. If you end up hurting your partner, not only will it break the mood but your partner may be put off from the whole act altogether.
3. Foods such as chocolate, whipped cream, and wine can help to enhance the sensuousness of the moment. Be creative!
4. Ensure that you practice safe sex (using condoms and vaginal dams) so that neither you nor your partner is put at risk for STDs or unplanned pregnancies.
5. As far as lovemaking is concerned, haste does make waste. Take your time exploring your lover and enhance the pleasure for both of you.
6. Make sure that you spend time on foreplay and arouse your partner properly. How much ever time you think is enough, add 10 minutes to it!
7. Love onions and garlic? Well, stay away from such foods when you have a sensual night planned.
8. Ask your partner what they'd like you to do and be their slave in bed, but don't do anything you're really uncomfortable with.
9. Rolling over and going to sleep after lovemaking is for the animals. Cuddle up!
10. No matter what it takes or how much time it takes, ensure that your partner has climaxed. And if you can't tell, just ask!

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