Your one hundred percent correct. I felt that, even sending such mails also waste of time coz it is also a kind of trying to correct others.
Every individual things that s/he is absolutely right person with perfect attitude.
People's wrong doings has impact on society.
If someone says i don't bribe that does not mean, corruption is completely gone. It is a collective process everyone should participate to bring change. when I say people it also includes me.
With regards,
Shahnawaz khan.
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On Thu, Jul 7, 2011 at 3:31 AM, Mr Alok Tholiya
All elders, laws, enlightened,good books,schools, gurus etc etc keep telling us, keep setting examples, keep guiding,keep warning,keep giving sermons but we are either hard core or good things are not so easy to imbibe,not so easy to follow and hence we don't find compliance easily. They keep doing their job and we .....some times learn then unlearn and then partially learn etc etc..
And know all these guidelines are for us and not for others. Never think of changing others. You will be frustrated. You have to change yourself, increase your bearing capacity, increase your understanding of life and people.People go to counselors to change others.And counselor tries to change you. Why? The other person has total block in mind and it is not easy to enter and change his mindset so since you have approached then he can try to fine tune you because may be it is (not always) easy to improve you. And then slowly counselor will take other person in confidence and start slowly to win over him and then bring some awareness and understanding in that other person too. Long process.
So better change yourself and stop insisting on seeing change in others. Of course you can put across your views, requests, etc to them, can set an example which they can one day follow (?? no guarantee) , give them right exposure ( good friends,relatives,media ( feel like vomiting),good books and environment and may be they will not learn bad and may be they will follow the suit ( I repeat to walk on short cuts are easy but to follow good path is difficult). Bye and all the best.
Thanks and Regards,
Alok Tholiya
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From: Shahanawaz Khan
To: SoaringEagle
Sent: Wednesday, 6 July 2011 1:51 PM
Subject: Re: How to handle insult
What is the use of this read when people do not reflect and ponder over it.
Regards,
Shahnawaz khan.
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On Wed, Jul 6, 2011 at 1:49 AM, SoaringEagle
:The Buddha explained how to handle insult and maintain compassion.
One day Buddha was walking through a village. A very angry and rude
young man came up and began insulting him. "You have no right teaching
others," he shouted. "You are as stupid as everyone else. You are
nothing but a fake."
Buddha was not upset by these insults. Instead he asked the young man
"Tell me, if you buy a gift for someone, and that person does not take
it, to whom does the gift belong?"
The man was surprised to be asked such a strange question and
answered, "It would belong to me, because I bought the gift."
The Buddha smiled and said, "That is correct. And it is exactly the
same with your anger. If you become angry with me and I do not get
insulted, then the anger falls back on you. You are then the only one
who becomes unhappy, not me. All you have done is hurt yourself."
"If you want to stop hurting yourself, you must get rid of your anger
and become loving instead. When you hate others, you yourself become
unhappy. But when you love others, everyone is happy."
Beautiful Quotes
If you are right then there is no need to get angry
And if you are wrong then you don't have any right to get angry.
Patience with family is love,
Patience with others is respect,
Patience with self is confidence and
Patience with GOD is faith.
Never Think Hard about PAST,
It brings Tears...
Don't Think more about FUTURE,
It brings Fears...
Live this Moment with a Smile,
It brings Cheers.!!!!
Every test in our life makes us bitter or better,
Every problem comes to make us or break us,
Choice is ours whether we become victim or victorious !!!
Search a beautiful heart, not a beautiful face.
Beautiful things are not always good
but good things are always beautiful.
Remember me like a pressed flower in your Notebook.
It may not be having any fragrance
but will remind you of my existence forever in your life.
Do you know, why God created gaps between fingers?
So that someone who is special to you, comes and fills those gaps by
holding your hands forever
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Bank of Universal Abundance & Divine Love inspires you to hug your near and dear ones today, and make a fixed deposit of love.
GOD BLESSES YOU AND HIS GRACE IS ALWAYS WITH YOU.
HAVE A WONDERFUL DAY FILLED WITH MIRACLES.
MAY YOU HAVE JOY ORIGINATING ALWAYS FROM PEACE.
JAI GURU
ANAND
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"Lord, may Thy love shine forever on the sanctuary of my devotion and may I be able to awaken Thy love in all true hearts."
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"Let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not."
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"Only as high as I reach can I grow,
Only as far as I seek can I go,
Only as deep as I look can I see,
Only as much as I dream can I be,
........keep reaching for the stars."
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