Love, happiness are all with in ........

Alok adds: we look at others, things,situations to give us happiness. Compare If people having those things are happy???No.

Find whether everyone has got everything no. Most have something or other missing from: health, wealth, children,spouse,job,security etc etc.

And even they have wealth/ children / spouse/job but those may be themselves be a reason for dissatisfaction / problems. What we do is we see different orchards,farms and gardens dream that all those things should grow in your one farm (life). Highly impossible.It is rightly said "adhi chod sari ko dhave adhi mile na sari pave".

The Sheikh chilli kicks his good fate in bad only by going in high dreams. Lets all stop dreaming and increse adaptability,adjustment and understanding of life,people and situations. Only source is good spiritual guru, good discourses like of Osho, Zen, Kabir, Jain muins or mental health expersts.

When one cant learn A B C without a guru then how can one learn life sciences / art of living without a guru????

 

I have seen many living happily and successful and without spiritualism. But suddenly something happens in life and they loose total happiness, go on depression,commit suicide, take law in hand etc etc. But the person already seasoned with tapa,yam, niyam etc knows such things will keep happening in life , in someone life it is early and others life it is in later part but no one has lived a friction free life. If your system is properly oiled u carry on and if not then u break down.Worst is it is nature of human beings to drift. So u need constant work up with good lessons/ pravachan/ knowledge/ exposure.

Note:

1. Person with deep rooted spiritualism may also get off road some times if faced with very severe shock but will get back on track sooner then those who are not spiritually loaded.

2. Spiritualism should not be confused with ritualism, show off, religious festivities,puja path,mere mechanical darshan.

 

The biggest learning from good teachings is compassion. If you have that then you can not hurt anyone thru words, deeds or actions. Read on..

 

 

I AM HAPPY...............

The Secret One day, one friend asked another, ' How is it that you are always so happy? You have so much energy, And you never seem to get down.. ' With her eyes smiling, she said, ' I know the Secret! ' ' What secret is that? ' To which she replied, I'll tell you all about it, But you have to promise to Share the Secret with others. ' ' The Secret is this: I have learned there is little I can do In my life that will make me truly happy I must depend on God to make Me happy and to meet my needs. When a need arises in my life, I have to trust God to supply According to HIS riches. I have learned most of the time I don ' t need half of what I think I do. He has never let me down. Since I learned that ' Secret ' , I am happy.' The questioner ' s first thought was, ' That ' s too simple! ' But upon reflecting over her own life She recalled how she thought a bigger house Would make her happy, but it didn't! She thought a better paying job Would make her happy, but it hadn't. When did she realize her greatest happiness? Sitting on the floor with her family, talking, playing games, eating pizza or reading a story, A simple gift from God. Now you know it too! We can't depend on people to make us happy. Only GOD in His infinite wisdom can do that. Trust HIM! And now I pass the Secret on to you! So once you get it, what will you do? YOU have to tell someone the Secret, too! That GOD in His wisdom will take care of YOU! But it ' s not really a secret... We just have to believe it and do it.. Really trust God!