धोखा खाने वाले या तो बिखर जाते है या सवर जाते
जो बिखर जाते है उनकी सासो की लडी बिखर जाती है
जो सवर जाते है वो ईस जमाने कुछ नया कर जाते है
Sunday, May 11, 2014
Sunday, May 4, 2014
I HOPE YOU STILL TAKE THE TIME TO RUN THROUGH THE RAIN.
A little girl had been shopping with her Mom in Wal-Mart. She must have been 6 years old, this beautiful red haired, freckle faced image of innocence.
It was pouring outside. The kind of rain that gushes over the top of rain gutters, so much in a hurry to hit the earth it has no time to flow down the spout.. We all stood there, under the awning, just inside the door of the Wal-Mart.
We waited, some patiently, others irritated because nature messed up their hurried day.
We waited, some patiently, others irritated because nature messed up their hurried day.
I am always mesmerized by rainfall. I got lost in the sound and sight of the heavens washing away the dirt and dust of the world. Memories of running, splashing so carefree as a child came pouring in as a welcome reprieve from the worries of my day.
Her little voice was so sweet as it broke the hypnotic trance we were all caught in, 'Mom let's run through the rain,'
She said.
'What?' Mom asked.
She said.
'What?' Mom asked.
'Let's run through the rain!' She repeated.
'No, honey. We'll wait until it slows down a bit,' Mom replied.
This young child waited a minute and repeated: 'Mom, let's run through the rain..'
'We'll get soaked if we do,' Mom said.
'No, we won't, Mom. That's not what you said this morning,' the young girl said as she tugged at her Mom's arm.
'This morning? When did I say we could run through the rain and not get wet?'
'Don't you remember? When you were talking to Daddy about his cancer, you said, ' If God can get us through this, He can get us through anything! ' '
The entire crowd stopped dead silent.. I swear you couldn't hear anything but the rain.. We all stood silently. No one left. Mom paused and thought for a moment about what she would say.
Now some would laugh it off and scold her for being silly. Some might even ignore what was said. But this was a moment of affirmation in a young child's life. A time when innocent trust can be nurtured so that it will bloom into faith.
'Honey, you are absolutely right. Let's run through the rain. If GOD let's us get wet, well maybe we just need washing,' Mom said.
Then off they ran. We all stood watching, smiling and laughing as they darted past the cars and yes, through the puddles. They got soaked.
They were followed by a few who screamed and laughed like children all the way to their cars. And yes, I did. I ran. I got wet. I needed washing.
Circumstances or people can take away your material possessions, they can take away your money, and they can take away your health. But no one can ever take away your precious memories...So, don't forget to make time and take the opportunities to make memories every day.
I HOPE YOU STILL TAKE THE TIME TO RUN THROUGH THE RAIN.
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Wednesday, April 16, 2014
Happiness is a state of Mind.
Alok Tholiya Happiness is a state of Mind. But all my well wishers advise me to hv bigger car, flat in a posh locality , renovate my office and enjoy wine party. But I am happy with zen estillo, happy in living in my own building though old, happy in doing business though small from humble looking place with things scattered and very happily dance in party without booze.
Rather many well wishers have indirectly disrupted my family happiness by giving such advise which my family may find convincing ( as they too get perturbed inspite of having lived with my dad and mom the extremely contented spiritual couple) .
Therefore even at age 58 I hv no BP, No Diabetes, no EMI to be paid, no interest to be paid and so on.
All the wealth of Hinduja and Garware failed to save their son from committing suicide. THE CHARM OF Kennedy CUD NOT KEEP HER WIFE AWAY FROM Oswald who finally murdered President for Jack. Prince and his kingdom cud not keep Diana indoors. All time powerful Indira ji cud not keep her husband in arms nor save her own life with security all around. Ambani and his wealth cud not keep paralysis away and he died not so old. And can go on by expanding the idea...
When same friends sit together then during gossip they give story of fall of Sir Seth .......so and so before their own eyes but still give priority to materialistic things. And teach their children to chase just that.
Such children are more prone to drug abuse under peer pressure, under stress or when faced with failure.
So concentrate on spiritualism around you and not on wealth.Wealth and success will come as per destiny so next is good karmas. With contentment and compassion you can lead a happy life. Trying to find happiness in money, power or name is just a mrig marichika.
Rather many well wishers have indirectly disrupted my family happiness by giving such advise which my family may find convincing ( as they too get perturbed inspite of having lived with my dad and mom the extremely contented spiritual couple) .
Therefore even at age 58 I hv no BP, No Diabetes, no EMI to be paid, no interest to be paid and so on.
All the wealth of Hinduja and Garware failed to save their son from committing suicide. THE CHARM OF Kennedy CUD NOT KEEP HER WIFE AWAY FROM Oswald who finally murdered President for Jack. Prince and his kingdom cud not keep Diana indoors. All time powerful Indira ji cud not keep her husband in arms nor save her own life with security all around. Ambani and his wealth cud not keep paralysis away and he died not so old. And can go on by expanding the idea...
When same friends sit together then during gossip they give story of fall of Sir Seth .......so and so before their own eyes but still give priority to materialistic things. And teach their children to chase just that.
Such children are more prone to drug abuse under peer pressure, under stress or when faced with failure.
So concentrate on spiritualism around you and not on wealth.Wealth and success will come as per destiny so next is good karmas. With contentment and compassion you can lead a happy life. Trying to find happiness in money, power or name is just a mrig marichika.
Tuesday, March 25, 2014
Let us learn to live with all ups and downs of life
The spiritual high person can always b happy but rich may not b happy in all situations and there r instances where rich hv committed suicide, gone in depression etc like others. So let us all learn to b composed and balanced in all situations.
Let us remember that even there were upsarg / violence against Tirthankars and other great ppl. .....Alok
Let us remember that even there were upsarg / violence against Tirthankars and other great ppl. .....Alok
Saturday, March 8, 2014
And that is why I am fan of Shri Azim bhai....Hats off to him and his concern
I wish he hands over business to his sons and joins politics. We need leaders like him.....Always education is my concern too. Family planning and good education to all will take us forward. Alok
Azim Premji's view on Philanthropy
Source: The Economic Times
URL: epaper.timesofindia.com/
Date: 10.12.13
PHILANTHROPY BLUEPRINT
THINK TWICE: ARE YOU BEING INDIFFERENT?
Azim Premji makes an impassioned plea to forge connections with the less privileged. His mantra for giving: start early in life, get good people on board, cultivate patience, tenacity and empathy
It was suggested by The Economic Times that I share some thoughts on philanthropy on this occasion. So let me do so. Let's think about tonight. We will all go home or to our hotels and sleep. No matter where we are, within a couple of kilometers of where we are sleeping safely and soundly, there will be a young girl, who is our daughter or granddaughter's age, trying to sleep in the cold night of December on the roads. She has been abused in the past, and she will be abused in the future. She is probably desperately hungry. In her circumstances, going to school or having anything else that every child must have is not even a remote possibility. When she wakes uptomorrow morning, it's just the start of another day of trying to survive, to again sleep shivering on the cold pavement somewhere. This girl is not alone. There are probably three million children who are homeless and will sleep on the streets in India tonight and every night. She is also not alone in sleeping hungry. More than 200 million of our people will probably sleep hungry, like her. In very simple terms: can we be indifferent to this? To my mind that is the basic question that we need to ask ourselves: Do we feel connected to our country, to the people around us? Should not every Indian have the very basic, bare necessities of a life of dignity? This is certainly not hoping for too much; it's just basic safety, adequate food, a roof to sleep under, basic education and healthcare. Most of us would feel this way. I think we just need to act. I have mentioned only a few kinds of issues. But as all of us know, our country is facing challenges of a similar kind on every front. Be it education, healthcare, nutrition, sanitation or of deep inequality and discrimination. Each one is as complex as the other, as necessary for a life of basic dignity. We can perhaps justifiably say that many of these issues need to be addressed by the government. Certainly the government needs to do more and better. But that doesn't in any way lessen the responsibility that we have. I and you, who have the privilege of being successful, have a greater responsibility. To me philanthropy is the connection that we can have if we are not indifferent to all these issues that face us. It is the mechanism for us to contribute to making some positive change. And I think greater our success, the greater the responsibility for us. I must also say that the desire to engage must come from within. No one can be told to be philanthropic. At its core philanthropy is about the connection that you feel with the people or the world around you. Many who feel this connection and have taken action have experienced that there is enough reason for hope in our country, and that one can genuinely contribute. The foundation that we have set up has been working with various state governments to improve equity and quality of government schools for the past 12 years. I have learnt that trying to improve education is a very
long process, but I think that basic education is the basic route to building a better society, so we remain totally committed to it. Let me narrate one of many things that give us hope in this journey. We work in some of the most disadvantaged districts of the country. We have 50-70 of our own people in each of these districts. They are all deeply committed to the cause of education, and are capable of educating teachers. In all these places we run voluntary learning forums for government school teachers, among many other initiatives. What this means is that teachers come to these learning sessions on their own. They spend their own money for transportation; they come from up to 30 km away in difficult conditions. They also spend their own money on food. They do this on a holiday, usually a Sunday. Can we imagine this happening in the best of the companies? How many employees of such companies will spend their holidays and their own money, so that they can do their jobs better? How completely contrary is this experience of ours, to the notion of the disinterested government employee? These are all government employees, but they are deeply committed and genuinely care. Our experience has been that between 12% and 18% teachers in a district become a part of such forums over a period of time. And if you ask them why they do it, they all have the same answer, which is that they want to learn so that they can teach better. We are not talking about small numbers. In a typical district with 5,000 teachers, this implies that 600-800 teachers are engaged in such forums. I find this a great reason for hope. When so many people from within the government school system have this kind of commitment, I am sure education will improve, given time and sustained effort. As I said before, we have been at it for 12 years. I have only one regret about my philanthropy, which is that I wish I had started earlier. There is so much to do, and this kind of work takes so much time that the earlier we try to contribute, the better it is. With these 12 years of our experience, let me share three other things that I have learnt about philanthropy. Those of you who are very active in philanthropy would perhaps resonate with these lessons that I have learnt. First, involving your family early on in philanthropy is very important. Their understanding, endorsement and involvement may eventually be the most determining factor. There is another positive aspect to this early involvement. Some of the smartest people I know have been those who chose to become homemakers. They can perhaps play a significant role in starting off their families' philanthropic efforts. Second, the key to scaling up philanthropy and doing good work is getting good people in the team. This is exactly the same as in our businesses. The work in philanthropy is perhaps more complex than business, because social issues are more complex. So it needs really good people. I think the most serious start to anyone's philanthropic work would be to pick one of their top people from within the business, a person who has the intent, empathy, ability and trust, and move him or her to the philanthropy side. Third, philanthropic work needs patience, tenacity and empathy. It is different from business. We all know that intellectually, but it's very challenging when one gets into it. One has to change one's mindset significantly if one has to make a difference. I have learnt this only slowly in the past 12 years. Thank you for hearing me out. I absolutely believe that we are trustees of our wealth for this society, and we must use it as such. We must do philanthropy because it is the right thing to do. I also believe that every one of us has the basic empathy with the people around us; we just need to let it find expression. I am certain that none of us wants to let the young girl I talked about earlier to go hungry, to get abused, or to sleep in the cold night of December on the road, when our daughters and granddaughters are sleeping safe and sound - as they should. Thank you.
URL: epaper.timesofindia.com/
Date: 10.12.13
PHILANTHROPY BLUEPRINT
THINK TWICE: ARE YOU BEING INDIFFERENT?
Azim Premji makes an impassioned plea to forge connections with the less privileged. His mantra for giving: start early in life, get good people on board, cultivate patience, tenacity and empathy
It was suggested by The Economic Times that I share some thoughts on philanthropy on this occasion. So let me do so. Let's think about tonight. We will all go home or to our hotels and sleep. No matter where we are, within a couple of kilometers of where we are sleeping safely and soundly, there will be a young girl, who is our daughter or granddaughter's age, trying to sleep in the cold night of December on the roads. She has been abused in the past, and she will be abused in the future. She is probably desperately hungry. In her circumstances, going to school or having anything else that every child must have is not even a remote possibility. When she wakes uptomorrow morning, it's just the start of another day of trying to survive, to again sleep shivering on the cold pavement somewhere. This girl is not alone. There are probably three million children who are homeless and will sleep on the streets in India tonight and every night. She is also not alone in sleeping hungry. More than 200 million of our people will probably sleep hungry, like her. In very simple terms: can we be indifferent to this? To my mind that is the basic question that we need to ask ourselves: Do we feel connected to our country, to the people around us? Should not every Indian have the very basic, bare necessities of a life of dignity? This is certainly not hoping for too much; it's just basic safety, adequate food, a roof to sleep under, basic education and healthcare. Most of us would feel this way. I think we just need to act. I have mentioned only a few kinds of issues. But as all of us know, our country is facing challenges of a similar kind on every front. Be it education, healthcare, nutrition, sanitation or of deep inequality and discrimination. Each one is as complex as the other, as necessary for a life of basic dignity. We can perhaps justifiably say that many of these issues need to be addressed by the government. Certainly the government needs to do more and better. But that doesn't in any way lessen the responsibility that we have. I and you, who have the privilege of being successful, have a greater responsibility. To me philanthropy is the connection that we can have if we are not indifferent to all these issues that face us. It is the mechanism for us to contribute to making some positive change. And I think greater our success, the greater the responsibility for us. I must also say that the desire to engage must come from within. No one can be told to be philanthropic. At its core philanthropy is about the connection that you feel with the people or the world around you. Many who feel this connection and have taken action have experienced that there is enough reason for hope in our country, and that one can genuinely contribute. The foundation that we have set up has been working with various state governments to improve equity and quality of government schools for the past 12 years. I have learnt that trying to improve education is a very
long process, but I think that basic education is the basic route to building a better society, so we remain totally committed to it. Let me narrate one of many things that give us hope in this journey. We work in some of the most disadvantaged districts of the country. We have 50-70 of our own people in each of these districts. They are all deeply committed to the cause of education, and are capable of educating teachers. In all these places we run voluntary learning forums for government school teachers, among many other initiatives. What this means is that teachers come to these learning sessions on their own. They spend their own money for transportation; they come from up to 30 km away in difficult conditions. They also spend their own money on food. They do this on a holiday, usually a Sunday. Can we imagine this happening in the best of the companies? How many employees of such companies will spend their holidays and their own money, so that they can do their jobs better? How completely contrary is this experience of ours, to the notion of the disinterested government employee? These are all government employees, but they are deeply committed and genuinely care. Our experience has been that between 12% and 18% teachers in a district become a part of such forums over a period of time. And if you ask them why they do it, they all have the same answer, which is that they want to learn so that they can teach better. We are not talking about small numbers. In a typical district with 5,000 teachers, this implies that 600-800 teachers are engaged in such forums. I find this a great reason for hope. When so many people from within the government school system have this kind of commitment, I am sure education will improve, given time and sustained effort. As I said before, we have been at it for 12 years. I have only one regret about my philanthropy, which is that I wish I had started earlier. There is so much to do, and this kind of work takes so much time that the earlier we try to contribute, the better it is. With these 12 years of our experience, let me share three other things that I have learnt about philanthropy. Those of you who are very active in philanthropy would perhaps resonate with these lessons that I have learnt. First, involving your family early on in philanthropy is very important. Their understanding, endorsement and involvement may eventually be the most determining factor. There is another positive aspect to this early involvement. Some of the smartest people I know have been those who chose to become homemakers. They can perhaps play a significant role in starting off their families' philanthropic efforts. Second, the key to scaling up philanthropy and doing good work is getting good people in the team. This is exactly the same as in our businesses. The work in philanthropy is perhaps more complex than business, because social issues are more complex. So it needs really good people. I think the most serious start to anyone's philanthropic work would be to pick one of their top people from within the business, a person who has the intent, empathy, ability and trust, and move him or her to the philanthropy side. Third, philanthropic work needs patience, tenacity and empathy. It is different from business. We all know that intellectually, but it's very challenging when one gets into it. One has to change one's mindset significantly if one has to make a difference. I have learnt this only slowly in the past 12 years. Thank you for hearing me out. I absolutely believe that we are trustees of our wealth for this society, and we must use it as such. We must do philanthropy because it is the right thing to do. I also believe that every one of us has the basic empathy with the people around us; we just need to let it find expression. I am certain that none of us wants to let the young girl I talked about earlier to go hungry, to get abused, or to sleep in the cold night of December on the road, when our daughters and granddaughters are sleeping safe and sound - as they should. Thank you.
Saturday, March 1, 2014
Every King was Once a Crying Baby
Every King was Once a Crying Baby & Every Building was Once a Drawing
Never be Proud Of Position You Hold, When Game Of Chess is Over,the King & Soldiers Go into the Same BOX
Remember the Carpenter's Rule "Measure Thrice, b4 u Cut Once". So before cutting Relationship think Thrice
Never be Proud Of Position You Hold, When Game Of Chess is Over,the King & Soldiers Go into the Same BOX
Remember the Carpenter's Rule "Measure Thrice, b4 u Cut Once". So before cutting Relationship think Thrice
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