MY advise to god gifted Mr shonee ....who helps all and sundry men with merits or no

I am very clear that law may not hound, aggrieved party may not hound but Karma's definitely do. But good and bad goes on in life/ world.
Still I would be interested how and what problems you faced and how you mnanaged.Whether there was really no reconciliation possible?
Whether both of you ( divorced wife and husband) will be able to lead a happy life hereafter?? Pl. note that I am not in favour of carrying on with marriage which r not giving each other happiness, dignity, equality, physical satisfaction etc but there r many other irritants which r improvable and yet ego/ lies/false accusations etc marr the relationship. So similar attitude will mar the other relationship in fututre too??? So r y sure in ur case future will be brighter ???
Shonee Sir, Words of Mr Kapoor potrtrays you to be genius. God has gifted you with extra ordinary talent. Go in deep thinking that u r using this ability as a biased person or as a truly saviuor ??? If a wife is a cheat/ rogue/ blackmailer then fine you must help ( all with good heart and brain must ) the victim. But if wife is a sufferer , victimised,tortured,harrassed then will you still help the husband??? I am sure no person with haert/ consciuons will do it and pile up bad karmas / misried for next few life and generations. Hope you will review and reply. Dharma says even alms ( bhikh) to non deserving is a sin/ bad karma. Can one help bad man or women only because some wrong was done to him / her???
As there r good and bad as many as you want so no need to pick bad cases for helping. I am not awar of case of Mr Kapoor so no comment on his merits but for future my requets is use your god gifted talent for helping deserving men and politely refuse others. No one eats spoilt fruit, no one buys in black failed movie, ...so on then how can sane person ......???? Khatte ber fake do ( Shabari story) .......and protect good harvest from infestation which is your right and duty. May god bless you and you too will give your Rama only mithe ber by serving the unfortunate husbands from sinful wife but not help wrong doer.....Alok Tholiya
Lastly, supposing one doctor for money removes my kdney then do I go and remove kidney from hundred other docs?? No you will advise and you will say make a forum to ensure such things dont happen, that culprit is punished and that victim patient helped.
Supposing a motorist comes from wrong side and hits me and injures me badly . Do I go our everyday an throw stone and all motorists I see. No say u will. You will advise a stricter norms for those who break traffic rules, you will advise to help accident victims and will ensure harsher punishment to careless motorists. And you will never help a person who as a drunk suddenly came before car and hurt himself and still asking ransome from a motorist. So u will help innocent whether a motorist or a pedestrian and not blindly help pedestrian only because you were hurt by one rackless driver. Or will you???

What Mr Kappor had written::

MANY MANY THANKS TO MR.SHONEE KAPOOR
I AM REALLY GRATEFUL TO SHONEE BROTHER FOR HELPING ME COME OUT OF THIS MENACE. MUTUAL CONSENT DIVORCE PETITION FILED AND STATEMENTS TAKEN IN THE FIRST MOTION FROM BOTH THE PARTIES. SETTLEMENT HAPPENED AT 3 LACS AND HALF THE AMOUNT PAID IN FIRST MOTION.

1. HE HELPED ME SINCERELY FROM THE BEGINNING OF THE MATRIMONIAL PROBLEM THAT I WAS FACING.

2. HE MADE ME FILE THE COMPLAINT AGAINST MY WIFE AND HER RELATIVES WHEN MY WIFE LEFT HOME.

3. HE HELPED ME IN DRAFTING THE REPLIES.

4. HE ALSO HELPED ME IN PROCEEDING OF CAW CELL WITH INSPECTOR OF CAW CELL. ADVISED ME WHAT TO TALK, WHEN TO TALK AND HOW TO TALK. HE HELPED ME TAKING THE STRATEGIES TO PUT THE GIRL SIDE UNDER PRESSURE.

5. HE HAS ALSO TALKED AND CONVINCED THE OTHER PARTY AND FINALLY CAME OUT WITH FINAL NEGOTIATED AMOUNT WHICH IS MUCH BELOW MY BUDGETED AMOUNT. THOUGHT OF GIVING 5 LACS BUT SETTLED AT 3 LACS.

6. HE HAS ALSO EFFORTED IN SEARCHING A GOOD AND TRUSTWORTHY LAWYER AND ALSO TALKED TO HIM FOR NECESSARY ACTIONS.

CAN'T EXPRESS IN WORDS, BUT YOU HAVE SAVED NOT ONLY ME BUT MY FAMILY ALSO. YOU WITH YOUR SMARTNESS HAVE FOOLED THE GIRL SIDE AND CAME WITH WONDERFUL NEGOTIATIONS. YOUR SUGGESTED LAWYER WAS SO CO-OPERATIVE AND HELPING. REALLY HAPPY THAT THE PROBLEM HAS GONE FROM MY LIFE FOREVER. WILL NEVER FORGET YOUR KIND HELP NOT ONLY MAKING YOURSELF ALWAYS AVAILABLE ON PHONE BUT ALSO GIVING PERSONAL ATTENTION AT SIFF MEETINGS AT PATIALA HOUSE COURT, DELHI. EVEN MY RELATIVES HAVE NOT SUPPORTED BUT YOU WERE ALWAYS THERE.. ALWAYS HAVE SEEN AN ELDER BROTHER IN YOU...THANKS WILL BE A SMALL WORD BUT HONESTLY YOU ARE A TRUE GEM...GOD BLESS YOU BROTHER.

CHEERS............

follow your heart..... - Steve Jobs..

Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to

help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything – all external

expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure – these things just fall away

in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important.

Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of

thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to

follow your heart..... - Steve Jobs..

Be careful about ur next move

EYES AND I TROUBLE A LOT,

WITHOUT UR AWARENESS U R CAUGHT,LIKE A FISH U too get  EATEN,

UR FALLING IN LOVE WAS FOOLISH ,DEAR DAUGHTER n SON

Be careful about ur next move

Dont open Pandoras box nither be too greedy...

Reality of Life - Amazing Story

Once a man saw in his dream, that a lion was chasing him.
The man ran to a tree, climbed on to it and sat on a branch.
He looked down and saw that the lion was still there waiting for him.
The man then looked to his side where the branch he was sitting on was
attached to the tree and saw that two rats were circling around and
eating the branch.
One rat was black and the other one was white. The branch will fall on
the ground very soon.
The man then looked below again with fear and discovered that a big black snake
had come and settled directly under him. The snake opened its mouth right under
the man so that he will fall into it. The man then looked up to see if there was
anything that he could hold on to.
He saw another branch with a honeycomb. Drops of honey were falling from it.
The man wanted to taste one of the drops. So, he put his tongue out and tasted
one of the falling drops of honey. The honey was amazing in taste.

So, he wanted to taste another drop and then another and as a result,
he got lost into the sweetness of the honey. He forgot about the two rats eating
his branch away, the lion on the ground and the snake that is sitting
right under him.
Suddenly when the branch broke he remembered all the dangers woke up
from his sleep.
The man couldn’t understand the dream,so he went to a scholar to know
its meaning.
The scholar said ” The lion you saw is your death.
It always chases you and goes where ever you go.
The two rats,one black and one white, are the night and the day.
Black one is the night and the white one is the day. They circle around,
coming one after another, to eat your time as they take you closer to death.

The big black snake with a dark mouth is your grave. It’s there, just
waiting for you to fall into it.
The honeycomb is this world and the sweet drops of honey are the
luxuries of this world.
We like to taste a little of the luxuries of this world and it’s very sweet.
Then we want to taste little more and then more. Meanwhile, we get lost into it
and we forget about our time, we forget about our death and we forget
about our grave.”

Moral:
Life is full of attractions and distractions. And death will come to
us without any notice.
So prepare for it well in advance so that you won’t have to regret later.

"Helping Hands are Better than Praying Lips"

Dear Prakashji,
Bank of Baroda Building,
Ahinsa Circle, Jaipur.

Namaskar.

I sincerely thank you for ur kind gesture of extending help and sending the scan to my sister.

Thanks to one and all in your office.

You are a best example of slogan which u use "Helping Hands are Better than Praying Lips"  who extended help to me when I walked in as an stranger and sought to use ur scanner and pc for emailing some urgent travel documents.

And I can not only thank you but am inspired to continue to do good work. All the credit for what I will do thru this inspiration will go to you in gods account.

 Let me know if I can be of any assistance in Mumbai.

Thanks and Regards,
Alok Tholiya,



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Money money money

I am having no work remarked one Rishi( as good work is no work for some)  ... and I will see in life his achievements if ill gotten and cursed money/ lies,pushing someone in fire etc  can whatever give him. Recently we saw karishma of money of Azzahruddin.........and earlier of many from Indira to ......

6 PRINCIPLES OF LIFE

 

1· No point using limited life to chase unlimited money.

 

2· No point earning so much money you cannot live to spend it.

 

3· Money is not yours until you spend it.

 

4· When you are young, you use your health to chase your wealth; when you are old, you use your wealth to buy back your health. Difference is that, it is too late.

 

5· How happy a man is, is not how much he has but how little he needs.

 

6· No point working so hard to provide for the people you have no time to spend with and they will have no time for you when you are old,ailing,lonely and needing them.

 

Remember this -- We come to this world with nothing, we leave this world with nothing!

 

 This is the proof that you don't have to have money to be happy.
 

"मौत" इतनी हसीन होती है,

किसी  शायर  ने  "मौत " को  क्या  खूब  कहा  है

जिंदगी में दो मीनिट कोई मेरे पास ना बैठा,

आज सब मेरे सामने  झुके जा रहे थे;

कोई तोहफा ना मिला आज तक मुझे,

आज फुल हि फुल चढाये जा रहे थे

तरस गया था मै  एक कपडे के लिये,

आज नये नये कपडे ओढाये जा रहे थे

दो कदम साथ चलने को तैयार ना था कोई;

आज काफिला बना कर साथ जा रहे थे;

आज पता चला के "मौत" इतनी हसीन होती है, 

कम्बख्त हम तो युही जिये जा रहे थे !

कम्बख्त हम तो युही जिये जा रहे थे